all done
the divorce hearing was yesterday morning at 9. we got there at 8:30 because i am notoriously early for everything. i told the bailiff that i was highly doubtful that kurt would appear but the judge wanted to wait til 9:10 anyway. he asked a few questions about the stipulations in the settlement agreement, asked if i was comfortable settling without seeing kurt's financial disclosure agreement, and all was done in less than 10 minutes.
i have one more form to file and will work on that today.